Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Thursday, March 5, 2015

What do you love about me?

"What do you love about me?"

This question is very tricky.... It really depends on how you answer them. But when you answered without satisfying the questioner, you're dead

But this question seems to be very popular among all the young couple which their chemical just bloomed. This question is very flirtatious, if only you are flirtatious.

"What do you love me?" or "Why me?"

If you really have the chemical bond within your partner, this is good to ask because this question is a very good compliment and makes you fall in love again. These similar questions are supposed to be compliment but many of the couple tend to switch from romantic to horror-tic after getting unsatisfied answer. (trust me, I've been there before)

If they answered "Because you're beautiful, kind, etc etc....". Be happy. I don't think that "Don't ask" would be much better, right? Ask yourself, do you really want your lover to ask you this and expecting for a brilliant answer without pissing them off? No, right?

Loving your another half is just because there is some "sparks" happening in the mind and heart which makes you wanna go "hunt" and "conquer" them. Although this "sparks doesn't happen much on the first sight.... Like me and Enric.

So.... Basically this question is just for flirting and getting nice compliment. Wouldn't you be happy that your other half said that "You're sexy" and then you got a sweet kiss? I would!! Please, don't just start arguing after this question raised. This is dumb if it happens. *eyes rolling*

Monday, December 16, 2013

Different culture, different way.

This is me and my boyfriend, a French nationality. We have been together since June 2013 and we're still kinda new to each other.

Now, don't get me wrong. We know each other through attending the same courses except that he's a transfer student from Toulouse Universite. We knew each other as friend, maybe for 3 - 4 months till we hang out.

At first, he wasn't really my type because he look so "kiddo" to me. But after getting to know him ever since he was unable to join a trip to Sabah with me and my other classmates, I start to mock him and promised to get him a souvenir. By then, we're getting closer and closer to each other.

Friends been asking if we had a fight. Yes, we do. But due to languages, I tend to understand the way he acted because he is from another culture. He is more straightforward whereas I don't. I expressed it in another way. I am a very hot-tempered girl and he used to slow down my temper.

Sometimes, due to language barrier, misunderstanding can happen. I do always try to understand that it is his culture, his way and this is how I accepted him for who he is. To be honest, it is quite difficult for me to have a different culture person as my life partner. It depends how strong my determination to give a chance for both of us. It is not easy to find someone who can go crazy with you, understand why you're acting miserable, listen instead of arguing for a point, teasing without tearing.

Oh! By the way, I'm learning french too. Just to have better communication with him as well as his family. I still believe that strong will do brings good result.

I enjoyed spending every seconds of my life with him. It is not easy to have someone in your life as it tooks you time to understand a person again. Fight for the one you love. Life is too short for you to renew every single thing that is going to happen next. Learn as it goes.

 I wish those who are still single, don't worry! Keep searching and at the same time, enjoy the single life!
And for those who are afraid to express your love, be brave! Never try, you'll never know!
Lastly, those who is in a relationship, don't cheat. May you'll be blessed with bundles of joy and happiness!

All you need is patience, understanding, trust, acceptance and committed to each other.
One more thing, don't compare your partner with your friend's. Everyone is limited addition. Keep that in mind.

Cheers, mate!